Thats not charity, thats cynicism.
You cannot outlaw charity, empathy seems to be soft wired into our socio-biological systems, according to this video:
http://comment.rsablogs.org.uk/2010/05/06/rsa-animate-empathic-civilisation/ I myself prefer to let the state do the so-called charities, like social care and health care and building schools in Africa, conforming to some legislation. I call those 'charities' my democratic 'rights', and I pay for them through my taxes. In this way I avoid being a cynic myself
. Of course, this immediately makes me a cynic big time, as I well know that my wealth in part is based on some guy somewhere in Asia making my things on your feet in a sweatshop for one dollar a day. But I have to buy things on your feet sometimes, and I cannot afford getting them handmade, so...
Therefore I am not a fanatic, I don't mind doing some collateral charity, like accidentally buying into a 'coffee ethics' or contributing to the donation of some computer games to sick kids.
In the German language it is possible to distinguish between
Zynismus and
Kynismus. According to Peter Sloterdijk, the first is the cynicism of the master, the second that of the slave. As citizens in the First World we cannot help becoming
Zyniker in our relations towards the Third World, but we can fight it through
Kynismus, typically by joking about it. Like in this little game:
http://www.molleindustria.org/en/oiligarchyor this one:
http://www.mcvideogame.com/game-eng.html