Personally, I agree with Sirlin. I think most professional gamers would agree with Sirlin.
This brings us to point 3 from way back ("there are more things to life than winning"). A lot of people get rubbed the wrong way by this stuff because they think I want to apply "playing to win" to everyone. I don't. It's not that I think everyone should or would want to be on that peak. There are other peaks in life, probably better ones. But those who are stuck in the chasm really should know their positions and how to reach a happier place.
Thanks for all the responses.
If that isn't one huge contradiction, I don't know what. Rambling on about how all the true competitors are on their way to a majestic sparkling peak of pure fun-ness and everyone else is stuck in a dark chasm of scrubdom at the base of the mountain in one paragraph and trying to bail out of it by saying "it's okay if you don't want to climb out of your dark pit your poor scrub" in the next just makes you look more like a jerk. =/
I don't think you understand what he's trying to say.
At face value, this article is simply a meditation on "playing to win", and why you should do it too. However, if you read between the lines, you'll realize that what this article is really talking about is being passionate about something. He's saying that you won't truly be getting enjoyment out of your video games unless you are passionate about them. Video games aren't the only kind of passion. You can be passionate about many different things: Music, Art, Love, Mountain Climbing, or whatever else. Sirlin is passionate about video games. In his mind, to reach the pinnacle of your own ability in a competitive game is nirvana, and those stuck in the "primitive" casual mindset simply don't understand that.
When he talks about there being "better peaks" out there, he simply means that there are probably better things in life to be passionate about. Personally, I agree with him. My passion is a beautiful woman who I think about constantly, and who, when I'm with, all my problems melt away and I enter into a blissful state of nirvana. Nothing else can replicate this feeling that she gives me.
If you don't understand why he defends "playing to win" so vehemently, then you don't understand a human's capacity for passion. Let's change the topic: Pretend we're talking about music. Somebody who loves music raves about Beethoven and Mozart, and all the skilled musicians and composers that have come before, then you seriously compare them to a Justin Bieber song you heard on the radio. Okay, you've got to understand the sacrilege you've just committed here. You've compared Justin Bieber to Mozart or Chopin. You've compared a shitty casual artist to one of the greatest musicians of all time. Can you not understand why that person would be upset?
Or what if, when speaking with an artist, you compared an amateur painting to the Mona Lisa? Can you not understand why that person would be upset?
You can say that Sirlin or the people in my examples are elitists, but we are ALL elitists when it comes to things we really love; we all put things we're passionate about on a pedestal. Can you find any man who says that his wife is just as pretty or wonderful as any other wife? That she's not superior or better at all, just average and regular like the rest, maybe special in her own way? No loving husband thinks like this.
Can you get a religious person to agree that HIS God is equal to the Gods of all the other religions? No, his God is the best God, all the other ones are false or inferior.
Sirlin is saying: People who complain about something being "cheap" in a video game, or who are not playing to their full potential, simply do not understand the beauty of gaming. If you don't understand what he's saying, then you are simply not passionate enough about games (i.e. casual gamer) to grasp his message. And like he says, that's okay! There are probably things in your life that you're passionate about that most people wouldn't understand either.
I'm not as passionate about video games as I am about the one I love, but when somebody compares League of Legends to DotA, it makes me cringe. To me, it's like the aforementioned blasphemies of comparing an amateur painting to the Mona Lisa, or Justin Bieber to Mozart. In your untrained and inexperienced mind, you may not be able to see the small but important distinctions; but I can, and the comparison itself is insulting.