yeah. I guess it really would be a space RPG, where your planet is actually a part of your role-playing experience. and you can lose it.
I think that's kind of a game would actually be doable. trade wars was able to accomplish that. if they can do it 30 years ago, certainly it could be done now.
sword of the stars 2 has a lot of potential to scratch some of my itch, but it looks like its missing the planetary portion, and once again we have giant racial fleets doing battle. some of the battle system from the original kind of confused me, and I've been wanting to get back to it and learn it the right way. I never felt like I had true control over my ships; the ability to actually attack different segments of the ships. That's supposed to be something you are allowed to do.
In a way, dwarf Fortress is really the closest to the entire idea. trade wars has better graphics than dwarf Fortress.. Something kind of sad about that.