Hi Sorceresss,
Well, I think it mostly just takes practice and experimentation to get really good at RTS games like AI War. I've been playing them since the mid-90s and I know that I'll never be truly world-class. Same reason I was never a grandmaster a chess, or anything like that, I just don't have enough natural talent or infinite time to devote to them. That's why I tailored the upper levels of the AI to be better than I can actually play against myself, so that the truly amazing players out there would have something to do.
For people new to RTS, I think that AI War is easy enough on the lowest difficulties -- the AI really doesn't put up much of a fight most of the time in there, unless you get really unlucky -- but at the same time, my chief worry was that players would find the game too overwhelming when they started. So far that doesn't seem to be the case most of the time, hope that is not the case with you, either. If there is some sort of other information / training material that you think might ease the transition into a game this complex, let me know!
Thanks for the link over the the Demigod forum, by the way -- I'll post some additional thoughts over there.